"It is easier said than done".
"We learn more about ourselves in bad times than we do in good times"
Funny how easy it is to complain about others concerning any issues and yet
when we are caught up in a similar situation we do exactly the same. Before
i go any further, the issue here has nothing to do with being right or wrong,
its how we react to any given situation that we should concern ourselves
with most. Anyway back to the real deal....My partner is down with a terrible flu
and without going into much detail, i got a bit upset and lost it and raised my voice trying to emphasize something....now, that reaction alone is wrong even if i may have been justified yet there i was reacting in that manner, a manner in which i dont like when am on the recieving end and thats not all, am always vowing not to do that to her when she is not well but i did it. Yes, a lot of us may find it easy to say its common sense and i agree but remember the first saying in this post, "it is easier.....". As for saying no.2, i really feel i learn't something really important about myself yesterday and in general off course is to never be too sure about certain things in life regarding myself/yourself and even if i am/your are too sure of yourself, its best to leave it unsaid and i say so becuase i feel really bad when am caught in something and react wrongly or discover i was in the wrong.
I believe we will always be faced with trials and tribultions but the most important thing is how we react in those situation regardless of who's right or wrong and i will always keep praying to become a better person in that area and all other areas of weakness.
God puts us in some of these situations so we can learn from them and i have learnt something about myself from this episode. Please pray for me, God Bless you all.
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